For a long time, I thought being good at my job meant sounding smart.
Long explanations. Big words. Design rationales that needed disclaimers.
I'd explain an idea from every angle, just in case. Sometimes halfway through, even I was thinking, Wait… what am I actually saying?
None of it made the work better.
When it clicked
The best conversations with clients weren't the polished ones. They were the simple ones.
"This works." "This doesn't." "This feels right."
And then I stopped talking.
Those were the moments trust showed up.
Clarity is doing the heavy lifting
I used to think simplifying meant dumbing things down. It doesn't. It usually means you actually understand what you're doing.
When I stopped trying to sound smart, decisions got faster. Feedback got calmer. Clients trusted me more.
Not because I knew less. Because I was clearer.
Design exposes this
The weakest projects I've worked on weren't bad. They were over-explained.
Too many justifications. Too much talking around the idea instead of protecting it.
The strongest projects had one clear thought—and someone willing to say, "Let's not mess with this."
This isn't just a design thing
When I'm unsure, I talk more. When I'm clear, I don't feel the need to.
Confidence doesn't rush. Clarity doesn't shout.
I still catch myself slipping. Adding extra words. Trying to make something sound more impressive than it needs to be.
But I keep coming back to this:
If something is right, it shouldn't need a TED Talk.
